Chore charts that actually stick: a UK parent's guide
A chore chart works when the jobs match your child's age and the chart is somewhere they'll see it. Here's how to get both right - then build one for free in under a minute.
Age-appropriate chores by age
The single biggest reason chore charts fail is jobs that are too hard (frustrating) or too easy (boring). Match the task to the age and you're halfway there.
3–4 years
Short, playful jobs that build the habit - keep it to two or three.
Try: get dressed, put plate by the sink, help feed the pet, wipe the table.
5–6 years
Simple daily routines they can mostly manage on their own.
Try: water the plants, set the table, sort the post, match up socks.
7–8 years
A mix of tidying and small kitchen jobs with a little supervision.
Try: empty small bins, hoover a room, help pack school bag, sweep the floor.
9–11 years
Real household help - laundry, dishes and looking after pets.
Try: take the bins out, clean the bathroom sink, help a sibling get ready, walk the dog (with an adult).
12+ years
Tasks that genuinely lighten the load, building towards independence.
Try: run the washing machine, mow the lawn, help with the food shop, deep clean own room.
Three tips to make it stick
- Keep it short. Three to five chores beats a long list nobody finishes.
- Put it where they'll see it. The fridge or their bedroom door works better than a drawer.
- Tie it to something. Pocket money, screen time or a weekend treat gives the chart a point.
Should chores be linked to pocket money?
It's your call - plenty of UK families do a mix: a small unconditional amount plus extra for bigger jobs. The important thing is being consistent so kids learn that effort and reward are connected.